• DrSteveBrule@mander.xyz
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    2 days ago

    Who did i misgender? Youre calling me a transphobe because I asked a simple question and then explained my app doesn’t show the same username that your does. You are showing senseless aggression.

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      2 days ago

      Why do people on here act like defending something someone else said is somehow different from saying it yourself? You opened with saying you wanted to down vote me, and then called me a clown.

      I still genuinely want to know why on earth, like completely unrelated to this, why you would choose to use an app that takes away basic functionality?

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        Let’s not forget who started calling others a clown first. Why are you so certain I was aware my app didn’t correctly display usernames? Who do you think here is defending transphobia? You haven’t made a single case for anyone in this thread being transphobic. You made your mind up about who is transphobic before anyone displayed any transphobia.

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          Let’s not forget who started calling others a clown first.

          Because you asked how you could possibly know someone who’s username is “katy ✨” was a woman. That is clown shit.

          You haven’t made a single case for anyone in this thread being transphobic.

          Doubling down on misgendering is transphobic. It’s fine if it’s an honest mistake at first, but the correct response to being called out on it, or seeing someone else get called on it, is not to downvote, not to argue about it, but to say, “sorry, I didn’t realize” and correct it.

          But no, I’m sure that your motives for fighting me on this have nothing to do with transphobia, you’re just fighting on it because, what was it again? I was “too aggressive” in calling out transphobia? I guess if people can say, “I’m not fascist, I’m just anti-anti-fascism,” then your version is, “I’m not transphobic, I’m just anti-anti transphobia.” My sincerest apologies for not making the distinction.

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            Again, you know that several users don’t see the same username. You know you have no proof of transphobia occurring here. To anyone who may have followed this thread this far, I apologize for feeding this troll for so long. I hope no one here truly believes you are an ally of the trans community. Baselessly calling people transphobes will do far more harm than good for those you are so desperately pretending to be an ally of. Congrats on being my first blocked user after 2 years of using lemmy.

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              You know you have no proof of transphobia occurring here.

              That’s where you’re wrong, the proof is in the fact that you’re still fighting me over calling out misgendering even now. You could’ve backed down at any time.

              Not surprised a transphobe is blocking someone for calling out transphobia.