TheArstaInventor@kbin.social to Moving to: m/AskMbin!@kbin.social · 10 months agoWhat's a dead giveaway that someone is a bad person?message-squaremessage-square104fedilinkarrow-up125arrow-down10file-text
arrow-up125arrow-down1message-squareWhat's a dead giveaway that someone is a bad person?TheArstaInventor@kbin.social to Moving to: m/AskMbin!@kbin.social · 10 months agomessage-square104fedilinkfile-text
minus-squareApathy Tree@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up6·10 months agoOr they gaslight you about your boundaries…
minus-squareZak8022@artemis.camplinkfedilinkarrow-up5arrow-down1·10 months agoMy personal favorite is when they gaslight you about whose “fault” it was. Failing to recognize that boundaries were only enforced because of decisions they made.
minus-squareApathy Tree@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·10 months ago“I didn’t even know I had this boundary until I met you so, yeah, it’s not my fault this is happening…”
Or they gaslight you about your boundaries…
My personal favorite is when they gaslight you about whose “fault” it was. Failing to recognize that boundaries were only enforced because of decisions they made.
“I didn’t even know I had this boundary until I met you so, yeah, it’s not my fault this is happening…”