I don’t have the patience to discuss transphobes and I will never, ever, understand them.

Just like the term “nazi” has been diluted, so has “transphobe” to the point where it has lost all meaning and it’s basically not even insulting anymore. Saying “trans women shouldn’t be competing in physical sports with women” doesn’t make someone a transphobe, yet I’m sure you think it does. Saying that calling a vagina a “bonus hole” is degrading and demeaning to women is “transphobic” is stupid, yet I’m sure you think it is “transphobic”, right?