I find it so hard to find anyone compatible. I’m basically slowing down my dating efforts because it just makes me miserable. Are there any success stories out there? Common personality types that pair surprisingly well? Anything?

  • 18107English
    211·
    1 year ago

    I don’t think I ever did dating. I found a human I liked, claimed them, and got married.

    My partner is the best friend I’ll ever have, and someone I want to hang out with every day. I’m lucky that they feel the same way about me.

    Go out, enjoy yourself, hang out with friends if you want, and you might end up keeping one. Your partner should be someone you can be around every day, through their best and their worst. Where better to start then as friends?

    • tormeh@discuss.tchncs.deOPEnglish
      5·
      1 year ago

      I do agree, but my friends are either not single or not interested or both. I guess I can just wait and hope to get lucky, but it doesn’t seem like a great strategy. I guess it doesn’t help that I’m not very social…