I’m willing to replay a section as many times as it takes, as long as I consistently feel a sense of progression and improvement. The problem is that it can take dozens of attempts before I realize I’m plateauing, and I have to give up.

I cannot tell you how much I want to play Remnant: From the Ashes. In between boss fights, I’m in love with the game. The story is deeply fascinating, and I love the gameplay. There is exactly one boss in that game that I was able to beat without going online and waiting for some random to join and carry. Eventually I got to a point where in order to upgrade gear, I had to kill bosses, and in order to kill bosses, I had to upgrade gear. Uninstalled it after I made no story progress for like 10 hours.

Contrast that with Outriders. Considered by many to be an awful game, it was my favorite game that I’ve played this year. The story is deeply fascinating, I love the gameplay, and there is exactly one boss in that game that I couldn’t beat at the highest available difficulty. So I turned the difficulty down, breezed through it, and turned it back up afterward, and there was no penalty for doing that.