To me it is chess. I know how the piece move but that is it.

  • LouNeko@lemmy.world
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    7 days ago

    Because others have gone out if their way not to be reliant on me specifically.

    People never let me plan things, people treat me like a child, people always ask other to double check only my work, etc…

    The worst thing is its a positive feed back loop. People think you’re dumb and don’t give you any opportunities, less opportunities means less experience, less experience means you appear less competent, being less competent makes people believe you’re dumb.

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      6 days ago

      I don’t know which people you are talking about, but if it’s adults and you are a kid, then there are some reasons behind that… :)

      My kid planned a trip to Croatia with his friends and they managed to book flights that made them spend the entire night at airports, because they wanted the cheapest price.

      Counting in that they had to buy airport food and hardly slept at all, and came home wrecked and had to sleep all day, meant that not only did they pay more for the trip than directs flights would have cost, they also lost a day when getting back to sleep and rest…

      I mean, it’s fine, but it shows inexperience and unwillingness to listen to adults who may have good ideas… :)