Tanis Nikana@lemmy.world to Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 months agoI have stopped trying to pass for cis. Now I just pass for "someone cis people try staunchly and vehemently not to look at," and it's nice.lemmy.worldimagemessage-square76fedilinkarrow-up1300arrow-down115
arrow-up1285arrow-down1imageI have stopped trying to pass for cis. Now I just pass for "someone cis people try staunchly and vehemently not to look at," and it's nice.lemmy.worldTanis Nikana@lemmy.world to Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 months agomessage-square76fedilink
minus-squareJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up6·2 months agoIt’s pretty nuanced, I think. I pass well enough (or not really, I don’t care anymore) and just want to be left alone. I’m sure the compliments come from a place of support, but it just feels like being lied to. I’m probably an outlier. 🤷🏻♀️
It’s pretty nuanced, I think. I pass well enough (or not really, I don’t care anymore) and just want to be left alone. I’m sure the compliments come from a place of support, but it just feels like being lied to.
I’m probably an outlier. 🤷🏻♀️