I, just wanna stop feeling anything. Never had friends but I could live with that, but I just want someone to embrace, someone that feels something for me, even if doesn’t last. Better than 0 for the rest of my life. This situation is slowly killing me.

The only thing that gives me some relief is gaming… (I read the post of like a week ago here that several dudes met their partner thanks to a videogame and I felt even sadder, why that wasn’t me? I’ve been gaming for 30 years now).

  • auzy@lemmy.world
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    1 month ago

    Join Meetup. That’s what I did. I run a hiking group and rock climbing group now

      • grrgyle@slrpnk.net
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        1 month ago

        I’m not a huge fan of what they charge to start a group, but Meetup is not a dating or dating-like site. It’s for finding a group that does something together. You don’t have to audition, you just click and say you’re attending an event and then just show up.

        Found a local developer meetup and poker group through. There might be like a gaming group in your area for instance. Worth a shot, right?

        I think it’s worth a shot

        • Empty@leminal.spaceOP
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          1 month ago

          Meetup isn’t a thing in this country. Never learned how to play any card game anyways

          • auzy@lemmy.world
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            1 month ago

            Huh? What country do you live in?

            You’re not even bothering to look up the suggestions?

            I’m starting to feel like you’re not looking for genuine help.

            Meetup enconpasses everything from gaming to support groups

        • auzy@lemmy.world
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          1 month ago

          Yep. I literally had that discussion with another Meetup leader.

          They charge bs prices, and it annoys me that they send ads for their own paid seminar things you can’t block, even if you’re not part of the group