Girlfriends car breaks down, she has to buy and sell a new one, lots of stress, my car breaks down, I have to buy and sell a new one, lots of stress, landlord puts property up for sale with no notice, lots of stress, new landlord raises our rent by 65% and now we may have to find a new place, lots of stress. This is too much, I don’t know how I’m even hanging on at this point

  • Balinares@pawb.socialEnglish
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    4 months ago

    Hey, friend. This sounds super stressful, and I hope things will not take too long to be sorted out. I hope you’ll manage to make room to take care of yourself too until you get to the other side of this. I’m rooting for you!

  • partial_accumen@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    4 months ago

    This sucks right now, but you’ve got this. Its bad all of this happens at once, but you’re going to work the problems, you’re going to find workarounds or solutions, and you’re going to make it through this. You’re going to face some other challenge a year or two from now, and you’re going to look back on right now and be confident you’ll get through THAT challenge because you got through THIS one successfully.

    Sit down with your girlfriend and figure out what your available resources are, what goals are most important in the short term, come up with a plan, and work the plan. YOU’VE GOT THIS!!! I BELIEVE IN YOU!