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Cake day: June 26th, 2023

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  • I’m really happy to be reading multiple times per week after years of just brainrot passive entertainment. It’s a joy to learn new things and I’m really into history. I happened to read a book because it had an interesting title and a character in a tv show was reading it for a few seconds in one scene. I happened upon a phenomenal topic and have been reading about early christianity for the past eighteen months. As an atheist, I never would have thought I’d be into this but it’s great!


















  • I came from a midwest city of ~400k people that was surrounded by small towns. It was a culture shock when I came to the Bay Area and all the servers at a cafe had tattoos and piercings (this was 20 years ago; the midwest has caught up with this). When I lived in the midwest, they made me take my earrings out to deliver pizza.

    Big cities are absolutely more accepting of diversity. You said yourself that the Pride parade is pretty large. Go get a feel for things. You don’t have to have some transformational sense of acceptance. It might happen slowly due to the years of repression (but maybe it’s right away, which would be awesome). I’m happy that you’re looking for where you fit well because there are definitely those spaces. Good luck!







  • I hated myself and my life for a very long time. It was bleak and hopeless many times. I want you to know that it can turn around. Never in my life would I have thought I could be were I am today in terms of mental health and self-love (as in, I love myself – something I thought was impossible).

    Please keep trying to find your way to the other side, whatever that looks like for you. I believe in you. Good luck!