• rmuk@feddit.uk
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    “You shouldn’t be sad while others have it worse.”

    Therefore,

    “You shouldn’t be happy while others have it better.”

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    Can you imagine if the frown turned into a smile upon hearing that? That’s the true depressing thought (that we would take pleasure in hearing of others misery).

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    I get this. I think about how relatively great my life is compared to humanity across the planet and it just depresses me so much further.

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    Sorry to hear that the people in your life are assholes :(

    Probably not very helpful, but tons of people are also just happy for no reason, so at least the world isnt all grim and gloom.

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    “I’m broke but managing to make it work because there are other people who can’t pay their bills more.”

    Same ridiculous idea.

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    For a few people, this kind of thinking helps. It does for me, actually. When I feel like my life sucks it can help to compare myself to an imaginary Anglo-Saxon peasant woman during the invasion of the Sons of Lodbrok, and it actually helps to realize just how much better I have it than her.

    But that doesn’t work for everyone, and even those it works for kinda need to do the comparison themselves, not have it pushed on them.

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      It can also make a person feel worse by making them feel like they’re a bad person for daring to have depression when there are others who have worse lives.

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        For me, I feel depressed thinking about how bad things are for so many people, and knowing there’s nothing I can do to help. At least not in any significant way

    • Grass@sh.itjust.works
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      I compare myself to a farmer peasant, and think about how I have more cool tech I can’t afford but in exchange peeling skin and bloody poop and honestly probably no area of better health.